A busted graft (artificial vein implanted beneath the skin for dialysis administration) and an emergency trip to the hospital. And later, an ankle twist and fall which seemed like nothing at the time but turned out to be a broken pinky toe, dislocated shoulder, peritoneal dialysis infection and perforation, back fractures, a hernia, and swelling which led to fluid retention and a need for tubing in his chest. Milike developed pneumonia and had to go on a respirator, even ending up with a trach (tube in his throat) and sepsis (a severe blood infection).
“It was bad,” he reflects. “The transplant team didn’t think there was any way I would become active on the kidney transplant list again.”
The long road back to the kidney transplant waiting list
Milike attributes his faith in God and the support of his family for getting him through the tough times. To other patients awaiting kidney transplant, Milike has this advice: “Be patient. Rely on your support system. Roll with the punches and stay faithful to the fact that it might happen. You can’t get discouraged by the things that are going on.”
“Be patient. Rely on your support system. Roll with the punches and stay faithful to the fact that it might happen. You can’t get discouraged by the things that are going on.”
Now that Milike has a new kidney and a new outlook on life, he’s looking forward to going to Disney with his family and celebrating his 21st wedding anniversary. He has three daughters, Alycia (21), who wants to be a writer; Raya (13) who wants to be a vet; and Mikayla (11). He looks forward to seeing them all finish school and college. For himself, Milike’s goal is to become a minister at Lankenau, encouraging people who are having a difficult time, just as he received encouragement from the staff at Lankenau. He will soon be ordained and is looking to start his own ministry.